We Will Miss You, Eric Flescher

No man is an island entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.

If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as any manner of thy friends or of thine own were. Any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind.

And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.

–John Donne

Yesterday, March 2, 2010, the bell tolled for Dr. Eric Flescher, and in tolling for him, it tolled for us all. We in the storm chasing community are diminished by the loss of a good, decent man whose passion for life was matched with a gentle, friendly spirit.

I never met Eric in person, but, like many on Stormtrack, I swapped plenty of messages with him, enough that I considered him a long-distance friend whom I looked forward to meeting. Last year he had let me know that his door was open if I needed a place to overnight while out chasing, and I was struck by his generosity and hospitality.

I never made it out to Kansas City in 2009, but I had hoped to finally connect with Eric face to face this spring. I regret that now I will not get the opportunity to sit down with him and talk about storm chasing, and about carnivorous plants, another passion of Eric’s that he and I shared. He was so proud of that Nepenthes ampullaria! And he was able to successfully grow a cobra lily–no small accomplishment.

To say that Eric was a storm chaser captures just one facet of him. He was a Renaissance man with a broad variety of interests ranging from severe weather, to astronomy, to carnivorous plants, to cooking, and more. Those who knew him better than I can no doubt add plenty of other items to the list. But in the storm chasing community, he was known foremost as a fellow chaser, and judging from the responses to ongoing news of his condition since early last December, and now of his death, he clearly was a very well-liked and respected chaser whom many counted as their friend.

In my five years on Stormtrack, I never once saw Eric enter into the sniping and flame wars that have lit up the forums, or demean another member, or utter a bad word about anyone. Not ever. And I never saw a bad word written about Eric. Those who wrote to him or of him expressed only appreciation and respect. In a community of diverse, colorful, and opinionated personalities, to be able to say such things about Eric is a tribute to his character and his stature.

Today I am saddened by Eric’s death. His wife, Sue Ellen, will deeply miss her beloved husband; many of us will miss our friend; and all of us will miss a gentle, decent, passionate man whose presence made both the chaser community and the world in general a better place.

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Comments

  1. Shira & Brian Flescher says

    Thank you so much for your kind words. My family and I really appreciate all the support and kindness from the stormchasing community during this difficult time. You all were a very big part of his life over the past few years, and we always enjoyed his stories of your chasing adventures together. It means a lot to know that our Dad had such wonderful, caring friends who loved stormchasing as much as he did. Thanks again for all of your support.

  2. My deep condolences to you and your family. Eric was a good man who struck me as someone who was enchanted with the world around him, and who lived his life with gusto. I wish I’d had a chance to meet him in person, and I will miss swapping notes with him.

  3. Steve Shawl says

    I’ve been a friend of Eric’s since 1981 when astronomy initially brought us together in the Atari computer store in Lawrence, Kansas. I was honored today to be the only speaker (other than the rabbi) at his funeral. It’s really wonderful to see how you all liked him and the community that you all have built together. He was really enthusiastic about many things, and storm chasing was certain near the top of it all. Thank to you all. Yes, he’ll be missed by many. This was many years earlier than it should have happened. Thanks, too, for the support you have all given to Sue-Ellen.

  4. I’m so sorry for your loss. I started “following” Dr. Flescher’s comments on a restaurant forum this afternoon, and was struck by his wit, his good humor, and his astute perceptions. I went to his blog site to see what other restaurants he might recomment, then googled him, to see if he had other blogs. I was shocked to hear of his untimely demise. What a loss to the community–it seems as worthless people hang on forever, and decent people–well, we lose them too soon.

  5. Eric was a rare one, what some people would call a genuinely “good egg.” I appreciate your taking the time to write, Nancy, now months after his untimely passing, and to share how he touched your life.